Dara Lithwick |
By Dara Lithwick
Near the start of the school year, during the 10 days of repentance
between Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur, we received an email from our son’s Grade
2 teacher explaining there had been a few incidents of children not treating
each other with respect. Teachers were working with the students to “reinforce
positive relationship building and kindness at school,” including modeling
positive social interactions and role playing challenging social situations.
They encouraged parents to talk with their kids about respect and kindness at
home.
My partner Marci and I were taken aback as our children’s school exudes
warmth and respect. But we were also heartened the school was treating these
incidents as teachable moments and transformative opportunities.
The day we received the email, we had a great sit-down with our kids
(our daughter just started junior kindergarten) after dinner about being an
ally to any kids who need help, respecting each other, and saying “sorry” when
we make mistakes. We talked about being aware when something is awry in class
or the playground, and knowing how to step in and be a leader and helper by
showing kindness and respect to fellow classmates, and getting a grownup when
their help is needed.
That night, I thought about how the timing of the incidents at school
meshed well with themes of the High Holidays – about the importance of treating
each other well and engaging in teshuvah (heartfelt repentance) when we do
something wrong or miss the mark. I wanted to put what had happened in a Jewish
frame, as I felt that what was happening could also help show how relevant
Judaism is to figuring out how to live and get along.
But I did not quite know where to start.
I turned to my first source of help, “Rabbi” Google, and typed a few
words – “teshuvah,” “children,” “respect,” “sorry” – into the search field.
Google nailed the response. One of the first results was a YouTubechannel called BimBam for a series of cartoon shorts titled “Shaboom.”
I was delighted. “Shaboom!” is an animated series geared to
four-to-seven-year-olds that combines Jewish wisdom with high quality
programming. It is musical, fast paced, sweet, contemporary, addressing
universal values through a Jewish lens. It includes 10 episodes plus Passover
and Chanukah specials all focused on fixing the world through meaningful acts
of loving kindness.
The series stars two magical “sparks,” Gabi and Rafael, who live in a
playhouse in the clouds. The reference to “sparks” is intentional, as are their
names. In Jewish mystical tradition, following the work of Rabbi Isaac Luria in
the 16th century and elaborated through Chasidism, holy sparks are essentially
God’s light that shattered into sparks or vessels in the creation of the world.
When we engage in acts of tikkun olam (repairing the world), we help
redeem the sparks to connect the light back to God, healing God in the process.
The names Gabi and Rafael are also quite meaningful. Rabbinic literature
identifies Michael, Gabriel, Uriel and Raphael as the four chief angels who
surround the divine throne, each of whom has particular attributes. The Hebrew
root in the name Gabriel (Gabi) means strength of God, while Raphael means
God’s healer.
Gabi and Rafael have different colour skin, and both take the lead in
teaching key concepts. Together they accurately represent the gender and racial
diversity of what it means to be Jewish.
The next day I showed two episodes to our kids, and they loved them.
They found the situations relevant to their lives. They loved the pacing and
the characters, and especially loved learning the Hebrew words. I loved how the
episodes are also entertaining and educational for me, and serve as great
launching points to talk to my children about the issues that are addressed in
the videos.
Since then we have watched episodes about welcoming guests, and visiting
the sick, and our kids look forward to more.
Of note, digital studio BimBam, that created “Shaboom,” ended active
operations in April after 11 years of creating Jewish content online. At that
time, ReformJudaism.org became the steward for all digital storytelling
content produced by BimBam, including “Shaboom,” many parenting resources, a
library of “Judaism 101” content for young adults, animation of the Torah
including a new King David series, totalling more than 400 original videos.
Family resources can be found by clicking here.
When in doubt, Shaboom!
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