Showing posts with label Jewish Federation of Ottawa. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Jewish Federation of Ottawa. Show all posts

Wednesday, February 19, 2020

Federation Report: Caring services during times of need


John Diener

By John Diener and Brent Taylor, Co-Chairs
Jewish Memorial Gardens

Jewish Memorial Gardens (JMG) operates the two community-owned cemeteries, the original Bank Street location, established in the 1890s, and on Herberts Corners Road in Greely, purchased in 1976. Combined, JMG is where more than 5,000 members of our families and friends were laid to rest. Approximately 75 burials are conducted annually.

Both cemeteries are divided into sections, each one associated with either a current or historic synagogue. Originally, the synagogues owned and ran their own sections, but that was no longer workable, so in 2008, the ownership of the properties was transferred to JMG. A Board of Directors runs JMG, and is made up of members from each of the founding synagogues, as well as representatives appointed by the Jewish Federation of Ottawa. The Board is tasked with handling all aspects of day-to-day operation, maintenance, and finance, while the synagogues maintain halachic control over the sections that they previously owned. As the synagogues were the original owners of the properties, synagogue membership is required to purchase interment rights. However, measures have been put in place to secure a special “time of need” membership when necessary. We also have policies in place to ensure that those who do not have the resources to pay for interment rights and burial costs for a deceased family member are accommodated.

Brent Taylor
In June 2019, Jonathan Freedman, chair of JMG since 2012, stepped down and we became co-chairs. Brent chaired the multi-million dollar revitalization of the Bank Street cemetery that took place five years ago, and has continued to be hands-on in all aspects of landscaping, maintenance, and day-to-day operation of the properties. John served as treasurer for a decade, and had dealt with and continues to work with finance, accounting, day-to-day issues, and compliance with the Bereavement Authority of Ontario. Together, we work in partnership with a group of dedicated volunteers and one paid employee, Executive Director Tammy Torontow.

Dealing with death is very painful and stressful for families, and Tammy collaborates with the synagogues, rabbis, Chevra Kadisha, funeral homes, and our wonderful grounds-keeping contractor to make the experience as easy as possible. Together, they all do whatever they can to get families through the ordeal in a dignified fashion, while respecting our Jewish tradition and halachah.

We have challenges moving forward. Like all organizations, JMG has to be financially sustainable. The sale of flowers that we plant annually on gravesites is a major income source and families are encouraged to participate. Flower sales both help with our bottom line and are an excellent way to beautify the cemeteries while honouring the memories of our loved ones.

JMG also realizes that the needs of the community have changed. There are new groups within the community that will have to be accommodated, whether they be small congregations, mixed marriage couples, or unaffiliated Ottawa Jews who wish to be buried in a Jewish cemetery. The Board is working on developing both short-term and long-term plans to deal with shifting needs.
Finally, both cemeteries are peaceful, beautifully landscaped places to visit, reflect and remember family and friends. JMG’s goal is to continue to provide caring, compassionate services to the community during times of need.

Visit www.jewishmemorialgardens.org or call Tammy Torontow at 613-688-3530 for more information.

Tuesday, February 18, 2020

Mitzvah Day: ‘My favourite day of the year’

Ottawa Redblacks mascot Big Joe shares a moment with a group of Mitzvah Day participants, February 2, at the Soloway Jewish Community Centre. (Howard Sandler)

By Dana Simpson               

People perform mitzvot (good deeds) all year round, but on February 2, more than 450 people of all ages, gathered together at the Soloway Jewish Community Centre (SJCC) and Hillel Lodge to take part in the Jewish Federation of Ottawa’s annual Mitzvah Day, a special day when good deeds are performed and celebrated.

The Sunday morning proceedings began with a breakfast buffet followed by the opening ceremonies which saw Federation leaders and VIP guests – including Ottawa City Councillor and Deputy Mayor Laura Dudas; Ottawa City Councillors Rawlson King and Jean Cloutier; Nepean MPP and Ontario Minister of Heritage, Sport, Tourism and Culture Industries Lisa MacLeod; Orleans MP Marie-France Lalonde; members of the Ottawa Redblacks Cheer and Dance Team and mascot Big Joe – march into the social hall at the SJCC in the Mitzvah Day Parade.

Also on hand were several Ottawa Police Service officers and Canadian Armed Forces soldiers.
First time co-chairs for Mitzvah Day were the husband-and-wife duo of Leslie Feldman and Mike Klein.

Mitzvah Day Co-Chair Leslie Feldman welcomes participants to a day of performing good deeds, February 2, at the Soloway Jewish Community Centre. (Howard Sandler)
“Giving back is a Jewish tradition,” said Feldman. “Mitzvah Day is such an important event for children in our community to get to know what a mitzvah is.”

An annual event since 2005, Mitzvah Day 2020 saw 13 mitzvah activities at the SJCC and Hillel Lodge.

Among the activities – some new, some long-time favourites – were the Great Jewish Adventure Scavenger Hunt; Can-gineering, a team activity to build structures using cans and boxes of food which were then donated to the Ottawa Kosher Food Bank; Furrever Homes, which recycled single socks into catnip toys for foster cats; and the ever popular Dance-a-Tonne at Hillel Lodge which saw Lodge residents moving and grooving with some of the youngest kids.

“We try to have new activities every year,” said Federation Vice-President (Community Building) Sarah Beutel.

And alongside activities old and new stood both first-time and returning participants.

Ottawa City Councillor and Deputy Mayor Laura Dudas fondly remembered taking part in challah braiding last year during Mitzvah Day and said she was happy to see the community come together year after year for Mitzvah Day.

“We always see so much about the bad and it’s so great to see a community of people who want to do better,” said Dudas.

A Mitzvah Day Can-gineering team builds a structure using cans and boxes of food which were then donated to the Ottawa Kosher Food Bank, February 2, at the Soloway Jewish Community Centre. (Howard Sandler)
For other participants, giving back was only part of the fun.

Asked why she participates in Mitzvah Day, Hillel Lodge resident Sheila Bahar responded without skipping a beat.

“It’s because there’s so many kids here,” Bahar said.

Kids who, like four-year-old Shmuel Caytak, came to learn about mitzvot and get to the root of the more personal meanings behind a mitzvah.

While patiently waiting for his herbs to grow at the Sprouting Knowledge station, Shmuel talked about what Mitzvah Day means to him.

“It’s special because it’s Jewish and it makes the bad dreams go away,” he said.

Whatever the motivation for attending the event, Mitzvah Day 2020 was a tremendous success.

“It brings all the community together regardless of age and denomination,” said Jewish Federation of Ottawa Chair Michael Polowin. “Mitzvah Day is my favourite day of the year.”

As Mitzvah Day wound down, Federation President and CEO Andrea Freedman reflected on the day’s events while passing out cookies with a smile.

“People, food and giving back,” said Freedman. “What could be bad? It’s about the power of each of us.”

A power fully exercised on Mitzvah Day.

Rabbi Reuven Bulka, co-chair of the Jewish Federation of Ottawa annual campaign and rabbi emeritus of Congregation Machzikei Hadas, showed his pride in the Jewish community and in Mitzvah Day by describing its importance in an organic way.

“It’s like planting a seed,” said Rabbi Bulka. “It’s a small little thing but it can make a big impact. It’s community growth at its finest.”