Tuesday, August 27, 2019

From the Editor: The news is now stranger than fiction


Michael Regenstreif, Editor

By Michael Regenstreif
Editor

My column in our August 19 issue discussed the explicitly racist attacks of U.S. President Donald Trump on four rookie members of the U.S. House of Representatives, all of whom are women of colour. In the days and weeks after that issue went to press, there have been some downright bizarre developments to the story.

Two of the congresswomen, Ilhan Omar and Rashida Tlaib, who both support the anti-Israel BDS movement, were scheduled to visit East Jerusalem and the West Bank in August. In July, despite a law allowing Israel to bar BDS supporters from entering the country, Ron Dermer, Israel’s ambassador to the United States (who is known to be extremely close to Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu), announced, “Out of respect for the U.S. Congress, and the great alliance between Israel and America, we would not deny entry to any member of Congress into Israel.”

That changed on August 15 when Trump tweeted, “It would show great weakness if Israel allowed Rep. Omar and Rep. Tlaib to visit. They hate Israel & all Jewish people, & there is nothing that can be said or done to change their minds.”

Immediately following Trump’s tweet, Israel announced that Omar and Tlaib would not be allowed to visit after all. Although Netanyahu and his ministers claimed the change had nothing to do with Trump’s tweet, few analysts believed that.

The decision was immediately condemned by mainstream American Jewish organizations including AIPAC, Jewish Federations of North America, the Simon Wiesenthal Center, the Anti-Defamation League, the American Jewish Committee, the Israel Policy Forum, and J Street as contradicting democratic values.

Barring Omar and Tlaib may well have provided more PR value to the BDS movement than the visit itself would have.

Then the story got even weirder. On August 20, Trump proclaimed, “I think any Jewish people that vote for a Democrat; I think it shows either a total lack of knowledge or great disloyalty.” (According to the Pew Research Center, Democratic presidential candidate Hillary Clinton received 71 per cent of the Jewish vote in 2016, compared to 24 per cent for Republican candidate Trump. In the 2018 midterm elections, after two years of the Trump administration, 79 per cent of the Jewish vote went to Democratic candidates, compared to just 17 per cent for Republicans.)

Trump invoked the antisemitic trope about the loyalty of Jews – one of the most common expressions of antisemitism throughout history. In the following days, Trump doubled-down and tripled-down on the trope elaborating that Jewish Democratic voters (in other words, Jews who don’t support Trump) are disloyal to the Jewish people and to Israel.

“In my opinion, if you vote for a Democrat you’re being very disloyal to Jewish people, and you’re being very disloyal to Israel. And only weak people would say anything other than that,” he declared on the White House lawn.

And in a tweet, Trump quoted and thanked talk radio conspiracy theorist Wayne Allyn Root for his “very nice words”: “President Trump is the greatest President for Jews and for Israel in the history of the world, not just America, he is the best President for Israel in the history of the world and the Jewish people in Israel love him like he’s the King of Israel. They love him like he is the second coming of God.”

The nightly news – in these Trumpian times – is, indeed, stranger than fiction.

Thanks Stephanie

As Stephanie Shefrin notes in her column, she is stepping back from being a regular contributor to Modern Mishpocha, the Ottawa Jewish Bulletin parenting column she created six years ago. Stephanie’s insights and discussions of various family and parenting issues have made her columns compelling reading for parents, grandparents and others.

One of Stephanie’s innovations was to recruit other contributors to the column and we’ll continue to publish Modern Mishpocha columns from Jen Perzow and Shirlee Press. In the coming months, we’ll also introduce a couple of new contributors Stephanie has recruited.

Thanks, Stephanie, for making discussions about modern mishpochas a vital part of the Bulletin. I know I speak for many when I say we’ll look forward to any not-regularly-scheduled Modern Mishpocha columns you’ll contribute in the future when inspiration demands and time allows.

Federation Report: Kickoff to feature comedian Elon Gold


Evelyn and Howard Silverman, Co-Chairs,
Annual Campaign Kickoff

By Evelyn and Howard Silverman
Co-Chairs
Jewish Federation of Ottawa Annual Campaign Kickoff


Elon has an extensive list of film roles and on such TV shows as “Stacked,” “In-Laws” and the hit show, “Bones.” He also has a Netflix special, and appeared at the Just for Laughs comedy festival this summer in Montreal. He is well known for his modern take on Jewish humour, and we are so excited to share a light-hearted and enjoyable evening with him.

For those of you who don’t know us, our family has a relatively short history here in Ottawa (only 20 years!), although Howard grew up in Alta Vista. We are so happy to have chosen Ottawa as our home, largely because of the vibrant Jewish life and community that has been so welcoming to us. Like so many Ottawa ex-pats, we began our lives together in Toronto, and then lived in the United States while we pursued Howard’s education and began building our family of four children. When it came time to launch Howard’s career, we returned to Ottawa with our young family and have enjoyed it ever since.

We reconnected with old friends and found so many new ones. All of our children attended and graduated from Hillel Academy/Ottawa Jewish Community School, and Evelyn, already an experienced teacher, worked there for many years, further connecting us with the community. Our kids attended and eventually worked at Camp B’nai Brith of Ottawa, and we were active members of Agudath Israel/Kehillat Beth Israel where each of our kids trained and achieved their b’nai mitzvot. We are currently members of Machzikei Hadas, which brings Howard back to his roots as a child, where his family belonged.

Our family has now grown up and is currently dispersed, pursuing education and careers in Montreal, Toronto, Kingston and Tel Aviv, and our parents, Flora Silverman and Linda and Dan Moss, live in Ottawa and Toronto respectively, leaving us firmly ensconced in the sandwich generation.

We must confess that when we were asked to co-chair this year’s Kickoff, our immediate response was, “Why us?” We are more of a behind-the-scenes kind of couple, and the thought of taking on this role was a bit unnerving. Nonetheless, we were honoured to be asked, and decided to go for it. Our family has benefitted so much from this community that we felt it was time for us to contribute in a more tangible fashion, and happily accepted.

The Federation team – including Andrea Freedman, Micah Garten and Tanya Poirier – has been phenomenal in guiding us, and we are so enjoying the process. We are so grateful for our happy life here in Ottawa, and as we have become more involved in Federation, we have come to realize how much hard work, effort and passion is delivered from those of us who regularly contribute their time, energy and resources.

As such, we encourage all of you to join us September 10 for Kickoff with Elon Gold. Come on out, see some old friends, say hi to some new ones, and have a great evening!

From the Pulpit: We are all in this together

Rabbi Idan Scher, Machzikei Hadas

By Rabbi Idan Scher
Congregation Machzikei Hadas

Sometimes you read a story and it seems so simple. But on reflection, you realize how powerful it actually is. That happened to me when I read this little fable:

There was once an old farmer living on his farm with his animals. One day, a mouse looked through a crack in the wall to see the farmer and his wife open a package. He was devastated to discover it was a mousetrap.

Retreating to the farmyard, the mouse proclaimed the warning to all of his fellow animals. “There is a mousetrap in the house! There is a mousetrap in the house!”

The chicken heard the mouse’s warning, raised her head and said, “Mr. Mouse, I can tell this is of grave concern to you, but it is of no consequence to me. A mousetrap won’t trap me. I cannot be bothered by it.”

The mouse turned to the sheep and told him, “There is a mousetrap in the house.”

The sheep sympathized, but said, “I am so very sorry, Mr. Mouse, but there is nothing I can do about it but pray for you. Be assured you are in my prayers. But honestly, I am little affected by it.”

The mouse turned to the cow and pleaded for help. She said, “Mr. Mouse. I’m sorry for you, trust me you will be in my thoughts and prayers.”

So, the mouse returned to the house, head down and dejected, to face the farmer’s mousetrap alone.

That very night a sound was heard throughout the house – like the sound of a mousetrap catching its prey. The farmer’s wife rushed to see what was caught. In the darkness, she did not see it was a venomous snake whose tail the trap had caught.

The snake bit the farmer’s wife. The farmer rushed her to the hospital, and she returned home with a fever.
Now of course, hot chicken soup is the best medicine for a fever. So the farmer walked off to the farmyard to fetch the soup’s main ingredient.

But his wife’s sickness continued, so friends and neighbours came to sit with her around the clock. To feed all of the visitors, the farmer slaughtered the sheep.

The farmer’s wife did not get well and she passed away. So many people came for her funeral the farmer had to have the cow slaughtered to provide enough meat for all of them.

We pray every day. And on the High Holy Days, which are soon upon us, we pray even more. And so many of our prayers are not said in the singular only for ourselves. Rather, they are said in the plural, for all of humanity.

But as we pray, and as we pledge allegiance to this holy endeavour of caring about others, it cannot be just lip service – “You are in my thoughts and prayers.” Radical and active empathy is called for, just as if we or someone very close to us was suffering. This story warns us that if we don’t take this seriously then we ourselves may eventually be struck, because we are all in this together. But more importantly, as much as we may try to convince ourselves otherwise, if we truly cared about our fellow human beings we would respond to their suffering just as we would respond to the suffering of someone who we are very close with.

This High Holy Day season is the time to open our hearts and to truly be there for those that so badly need it.